Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Actor Delroy Lindo, Indiana Pacer Coach Brian Shaw, the Glove Gary Payton, and Actor Mark Curry Honor Oakland Youth through EOYDC Scholarships





By Carla Thomas
  

Excited students, youth advocates and community leaders enjoyed EOYDC’s Pathway to College “Something For Everyone 7” fundraiser at the home of power couple Brian Shaw, the newly named head coach for the Indiana Pacers and celebrity chef Nikki Shaw. 

The summer sun shone brightly amidst the balcony of the manse in the hills for the afternoon of art, wine and music celebrating college bound students with scholarships and honoring celebrities like comedian Mark Curry, NBA star Gary Payton, Golden State forward Vladimir Radmanovic and sports agent Aaron Goodwin for their dedication to future leaders with the “Champion for Youth” award. 

Guests enjoyed poetry readings by EOYDC youth, a silent auction and the sounds of the Dong Ellington Jazz Quartet.

Brian Shaw & Mark Curry
“I give all the credit to Regina, she works hard every year all year and I’m excited about our inner city youth doing things and going to college,” said Nikki Shaw of Executive Director Regina Jackson who has worked tirelessly for the EOYDC for over 3 decades gave. 
 
During the reception over 30 financial scholarships were presented to college bound students.  While Jackson thanked all of her supporters, she recounted Payton’s first donation in previous years, in the generous amount of $100,000.  “Gary Payton is not just an NBA champion he is a champion for people and specifically for you.”

Pacer Coach Brian Shaw & Gary Payton
The Oakland favorite and sports hero Payton is based in Seattle, but remains active and committed to Oakland and the sanctuary the EOYDC provided when he was a kid.  The retiree who acknowledged his mother Annie, in the audience, says he‘s up for the Hall of Fame in January and wants to ensure future generations can pursue their dreams.  “I’ve been working on starting a charter school out here, like Kevin Johnson, and get these kids off the streets.  I have the OUSD and superintendent on board, so look for that in a couple of years,” he stated proudly with plan to collaborate with Shaw and Oaklander Jason Kidd who took home the of 2011 NBA Championship with the Dallas Mavericks. 
 
It was an emotional moment for all when Shaw announced the recent passing of Curry’s father as he spoke at the podium.  Shaw, who lost his own parents and sister in a car accident 19 years ago, embraced and consoled him.   The Shaws also use this time of year to turn a tragic memory into a powerful one, by hosting the annual fundraiser.  “This is the day before that accident, so it’s great to be able to turn this into a positive time,” he said.  “I believe we have to live every day to the fullest and put God first,” added his wife Nikki, the featured chef for the L.A. Lakers and NBA.com.
      Delroy Lindo & wife, Brian Shaw & wife

KRON TV 4 Broadcaster Pam Moore has participated in EOYDC’s summer program for over five years and created the EOYDC Pathway to College Pam Moore Scholarship in the amount of  (2) $2500 awards for deserving students for the next five years.   Payton decided to match her amount for six years.  
“I wanted to do something beyond the summer program because so many people helped me throughout my life and career and we all have to pass it on,” said Moore.   "EOYDC is an organization I truly believe in and Regina is an inspirational leader who loves these children.  She is committed."

KRON Anchor Pam Moore & Sha'Quea Pratt
“I’m really surprised and happy to have gotten the scholarship,” said, 
recipient Sha’Quea Pratt.

Nikki Shaw’s mother, Paula Welsh of Welsh Communications, Del Roy Lindo and wife Nashormeh, radio personality Miranda Wilson, celebrity publicist Suzanne Summerville of Lifted PR, Cheri Dove of Nordstrom, EOYDC board president Gerry Dove also supported the event.

Pathway to College was created to prepare students for a smooth, uncomplicated and informed transition into college life including academic counseling, college tours and free assistance with financial options provided for 8th graders and up.  For more information check out:  www.eoydc.org

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Saturday, June 25, 2011

Get Rich, Become a Black Republican

 



By Gregory K. Taylor


I’ve been entertaining the idea of a get-rich-quick scheme.  Forget the Ponzi deception (Bernie Madoff wrecked it for everybody), don’t get bogged down with a pyramid undertaking either--too cumbersome, multi-level marketing—why bother. I have found the mother lode to rapid wealth and success is virtually assured if one follows my three-step blueprint to unimaginable wealth I now offer. 

First, run don’t walk to the nearest GOP office and register yourself with the Republican Party.  Better yet, announce yourself as a Tea-Party Republican.  Second, attend all Republican events in your area social or otherwise.  Third, make wild pronouncements condemning your counterparts in the Democratic Party—I’m sorry, Democrat Party.  Repeat parts two and three if necessary until such time sufficient attention has been drawn to you.  You will be astonished how quickly you will be taken under the Party’s wing and given a platform to spew your pearls of wisdom on various radio and television talk shows.  In fact, if you play your cards right you might end up with your own show.

Now, you understand your entire value to the GOP is your “Blackness” so don’t forget that fact.  It will be exploited for its greatest influence in order to offset those liberal Blacks in the Democrat Party.  At first, you may be used as an extra (you know, like a movie extra), for background cattle-call work.  You’ve seen the shot of the lone Black at a GOP campaign rally.  Not to worry though, the GOP will make it seem like there are several Blacks at the rally by showing you over and over again usually positioned behind and to the left or right of the candidate.  This is good practice work for you before you’re hauled out for a speaking part.

When your speaking opportunity comes you must be ready to take full advantage.  It will probably be in the form of an interview.  No matter what question is posed to you, your answer must always involve dumping on Black people for the problem.  It should sound something like this, “So Mr. so and so, what’s your opinion on the state of car sales in America? “  Your answer must always involve some Black person causing the malady—your mission is always to give aid and comfort to fellow GOP’ers by parroting their biases.  It doesn’t always have to be so direct or overt either.  Some answers can be effectively couched in code words for Black people.  “Now that NASA has shut down the shuttle program what will America’s new frontier be?”  Your answer should deal with the welfare entitlement program and how it leeched funds from the space program. Get it?

Your successful role models should be Black Republicans, such as, Clarence Thomas, Larry Elder, Alan Keyes, and Reverend Jesse Lee Peterson.  You should take special note from mentors like Reverend Jesse Lee Peterson who said that President Obama hates white people.  I mean, you can’t get any better than that!  The only problem with some Blacks not hitting the jackpot is that they have over-exposed themselves and have lost their credibility—so be careful about getting too far out there with your pronouncements.

Now, you may be wondering why I haven’t struck it rich by taking my own advice.  I must admit that I just don’t have the backbone to dump on my own people for money.  I’m not sure what I would sell-out for, but that isn’t one of them.  Self-loathing and hatred I just don’t have.  And, I really do subscribe, with the exception of people like General Colin Powell, a dying breed of moderate Republicans, to Whoopi Goldberg’s antilogy that a “Black Republican is like a Jew for Jesus.”

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

100 Black Men of America Stand Thousands Tall While Celebrating Their 25th Anniversary Convention in the Bay Area


 

By Carla Thomas


The 100 Black Men of America, Inc stood thousands tall as they took over the Bay Area with their national convention celebrating 25 years of community service and mentoring throughout the nation with 116 chapters.  Their theme of Mentoring the 100 Way Across A Lifetime was saluted with dozens of workshops, special events, luncheons, gala dinners, panel discussions and celebrity entertainment primarily held at the Marriot Marquis in San Francisco.

Everything at the event was top of the line.  The 20 x 12 foot ice sculpture of the San Francisco skyline,  the four life sized wax statues of the founders of the organization (100 Black Men of America Inc.), the mini-Macy’s boutique, to the Cadillac galley in one of the main ballrooms.

The power-packed days were filled with education, networking, and interactions with some of the most powerful executives and celebrities in the country.  During one of the black-tie gala events guests were welcomed by Shirley Strawberry, co-host of the Steve Harvey show and Senior Vice President of Wells Fargo, Brenda Wright.    All had the opportunity to honor the Honorable Willie Brown, Former Mayor of San Francisco, the Honorable Kevin Johnson, Mayor of Sacramento, and Global Aviation Director of Exxon Mobil, Jesse Tyson. 

A lively concert featuring Bay Area favorite Ledisi had the crowd moving to her passionate love songs.  Guests were treated to the human beat boxing stroll down memory lane of hip hop pioneer Doug E. Fresh who gave a phenomenal performance interspersed with the music of TV shows “Good Times,” “The Jeffersons,” “Sanford and Son.”

Bay Area Chapter National Co-Chairman Daryle White said members worked tirelessly to ensure a successful event.  “We are truly committed to our communities and to our youth.”

Chairman Emeritus Thomas W. Dortch, Jr., said, “We have hundreds of young black boys and girls here that are being exposed to us and national figures that are a part of our family.”  

President Emeritus of the Silicon Valley Chapter and co-chair William Kindricks said the event had been planned for 8 years and described the event as “a dream come true.” 
 
President Emeritus Dr. William H. Hayling said, “I feel very proud of the organization.  I’ve practiced obstetrics and gynecology most of my life and I’ve delivered over 8,000 babies and this is the biggest baby I’ve delivered.”

Curley Dossman, Vice Chairman of Operations said, “Being in the community is most essential.  This is when the rubber meets the road and the actual work is being done.  It’s about deeds not words, sowing seeds, nurturing the cultivating them in as many ways as we can and getting that done by being on the front line."
Sacramento Mayor Kevin Johnson 

At Mc Clymonds High School the organization hosted their community empowerment project entitled “Preparing Our Children for the Global Community,” an outdoor fair and awards ceremony recognizing community leaders.  The U.S. Army, the American Red Cross, Jamba Juice and others provided educational booths and refreshments. 

Chairman Dotson said, “This is our largest attended conference and we are enjoying the bay area.  Every time we convene a conference in the city we try to have a sustainable impact beyond the dollars spent in the hotel.   Our local chapters told us that Mc Clymonds was the place to be, so we brought our partners, our members and sponsors so that we can make a difference in the community that can be sustained after we leave.”

Olympic medalist Tommie Smith, who took a stand in 1968 with the Black Power salute, led youth activities throughout the conference including an exercise across the golden gate bridge.  He stated, “This is amazing!  I feel very strongly that this is something that hasn’t happened in my life in terms of helping the community advance through its youth.” 

OUSD Superintendent Tony Smith stated, “The 100 Black Men Inc. is extraordinary. This day is more than an event it’s a long term commitment of making health and education central and healing communities.”

McClymonds' High School Principal Kevin Taylor said, “It’s unbelievable. Health, wellness, fitness and financial literacy - It’s about empowering the entire person.  Without the rallying support of groups like 100 black men and the alumni we could not be as successful.”

Retired McClymonds High School Principal (1995-1999) Willie Hamilton said, “This is incredible for the 100 Black Men to have their conference here and telling the community that we count. “

Friday, June 17, 2011

Sand Pit Afghanistan




By Gregory K. Taylor


The recent covert operation of 2 May, 2011, that resulted in the assassination of Osama bin Laden in Abbottabad, Pakistan drew America’s attention back to the war in Afghanistan.  The longest war in America’s history, unlike other shooting wars, flies well below the conscious radar of most Americans.  This is quite understandable considering that we occasionally hear about it when we are watching the news or when we see the death count at the end of a related program.  Otherwise, we are required to make no visible, conscious, sacrificial effort that would remind us of the war; and honestly we’re just too damn busy struggling to survive.

When I heard about the assassination, I went searching for a paper I wrote a few years ago on Afghanistan and its history.   A fairly comprehensive explanation of how Afghanistan came to be, its struggle with foreign powers, and its religious fervor.

Lamenting the last year of floods, famine, and earthquakes which have bedeviled Afghanistan, a woman asks about the most recent earthquake of 31 May 1998, “What kind of curse has God put on our country?” (Oakland Tribune)  And to illustrate the geopolitical concerns of bay area Afghans regarding human suffering as it relates to regional nuclear weapons testing.  Tufa Ahmad of Fremont, California stated, “The earthquake is a disaster we can’t do anything about.  We’re prone to disasters.  But people in the world should know that Afghanistan is more dangerous than any atomic bomb.  People there have suffered so much, they’re going to explode.” (Oakland Tribune)

What this Afghan (presumed) refugee/expatriate alludes to is the historical calamities that have beleaguered Afghanistan almost from its inception.  Afghanistan has been manipulated, exploited, and militarily occupied by expansionist and colonial powers.  During the past two decades Afghanistan has suffered from a precipitous drop in population due to death and disease caused by warfare.  Between April 1978, when a violent coup d’etat brought to power a radical pro-Soviet political party, and early 1986 perhaps one-third of the populace fled the country.  According to the United Nations, this constituted the largest refugee population in the world.”  (Nyrop and Seeking xxi)

Afghanistan, historically, has been a heterogeneous society, and like the rest of Central Asia the majority of people belong to the Sunnis Islamic sect (approximately two-thirds) and the remaining one-third is affiliated with the Imani Shiism faith—all are Muslims.  These contentious groups were nationalized into one nation in 1747 by Ahmad Shah.  “His success in war, piety, justice, wise political leadership, and conformity to the traditions of the Pushtuns won him a great deal of popular support, and his name became revered in Afghan history as the father of his country, Ahmad Shah Baba.” (Magnus, Naby 30)  Ahmad Shah conducted many military forays against non-Muslims acquiring an empire the distance to present-day Iran and India.  Subsequent hereditary rulers over the years became more and more litigious.  As a result, the empire fractured into sundry principalities, the precursor to the demise of Afghanistan’s Golden Age Empire.

Geopolitically, the major players were the empires of Britain and Czarist Russia with the chess game being played out in Central Asia—and the various pieces being strategically positioned in opposition.  “As in earlier times, two great empires confronted each other, with Central Asia lying between them.  The Russians feared permanent British encroachment into Central Asia as the British moved northward taking control of the Punjab, Sind, and Kashmir.  Equally suspicious, the British viewed Russian absorption of the Caucasus and Georgia, Kirghiz and Turkmen lands, and Khiva and Bu khara as a threat to British interest in the Indian subcontinent.”  (Nyrop and Seeking 24)  

Subsequent wars like the first Anglo-Afghan war, euphemistically named, Auckland’s folly, resulted in Russia’s absorption of territories that once belonged to Ahmad Shah Durran’s empire left Britain totally befuddled.  Russia’s hegemony over Central Asia in general and Afghanistan in particular was not to be easy—and it was thwarted in the final analysis by societal tradition.

These indivisible traditions related strongly to community land and its concomitant state irrigation system.  “Land cannot be separated from the irrigation system and therefore from any community as a collective user of the irrigation system.”  (Malik 98)  Czarist Russia at first maintained community coherence by preserving traditional structures, but later, in apparent contradiction, precipitated a revolt in both Central Asia and Kazakhstan by attempting to alter the norms of traditional society.  Traditions are so deeply embedded in the psyche of Central Asia that land reforms instituted by the government of Afghanistan was the genesis of the Afghan resistance.  Central Asia’s over-all decline of its intellectual base, as it relates to tradition, is directly proportional to societal standards.  For one, the study of technology is not encouraged—to do so would deprive the rural community of expert assistance, and without the requisite technical skills the infrastructure of a country will be forever wanting. 

“Totalitarianism” of any sort, be it religious or otherwise, engenders a national brain-drain.  Consequently, a student of non-Central Asian extraction is more likely to enroll in technical school and upon graduation will leave the country if prevailing government interest in his skills are lacking.  So, the Central Asian student is grounded in subjects that perpetuate—if you will---Traditional Values.  “Students of Central Asian nationalities prefer to study history, especially history of their own people or that of bordering Muslims countries.  They concentrate mostly on studying ancient and medieval history, ethnography, and archaeology.  The central Asian intellectuals believe that all that is theirs is ‘good.’  The source of this perception lies in the denial of everything that contradicts tradition.  There own national values are given preference.”  (Malik 103)

Into this mix comes the liquidation of the Soviet Union with an increasing Islamic fundamentalism epicentrally in Tajikistan.  “Independence came to the Central Asian republics not as a result of a victory of the national-liberation forces; it came as a ‘present’ after the liquidation of the Soviet union by the three leaders of the  Slavic republics:  Russia, the Ukraine, and Byelorussia (AKA: White Russian Soviet socialist Republic).  The main theater of instability in Central Asia is Tajikistan.  It is not an accident, in this republic all negative peculiarities typical of Central Asian republics reached their apex; deformed and weak economy, overpopulation, unemployment, low level of mass culture, religious fanaticism, and arrogance of local intellectuals.”  (Malik 111)

In close proximity to one another, Afghanistan and Tajikistan helped to propagate fundamentalism into Central Asia.  Russia was unable to stop the flow of arms from neighboring Pakistan into Afghanistan.  The border apparently leaked like a sieve with the porosity of Swiss cheese and all attempts at interdiction failed.

“Weapons and ammunition continue to cross the border from Afghanistan.  According to the deputy chief of the Russian border troops stationed in Tajikistan, groups of fighters from Tajikistan, including not only Tajikis but Uzbeks as well, receive military training in the Afghan province of Kunduz.  Hekmatyar’s commanders head the forays into Tajikistan.  The power-grab process by the Afghan fundamentalists that was predicted is apparently under way.”  (Malik 112)

From the day Iran seized American embassy personnel and paraded them on the world stage as hostages for over a year, Islamic fundamentalism and its far-reaching tentacles have been feared and talked about, much like the domino theory of the Viet Nam war.  “In 1972, Habib ur-Rahman, one of the founders of the Islamic party of Afghanistan, said: ‘We do not recognize borders.  The day will come when Muslims of all the world will live under a common flag with the same coat of arms.  If we attain power we shall struggle for Islam in Afghanistan and in the whole world, where our brothers live under the yoke of communism.  Are the inhabitants of Bukhara, Samarkand and Tajikistan not Muslims?  What about the Tatars?  Are they not our brother?’”  (Malik 113)

Afghanistan’s history is replete with territorial land grabs.  “At first the Afghans were a dynamic and expansionist empire, the last successors to the Central Asian imperial tradition of the Kushans, Huns, Ghaznavids, Seljuks, Mongols, Timurids, and Uzbeks.”  (Magnus, Naby 60)  Only the rise of Europe as an expansionist power brought to an end such domination.

Afghanistan’s religious zeal, and the concept of borderless Islam, meets with some success in Central Asia.  “Of all the states in the region, Afghanistan is the only one that continues to press for the adoption of universal Islamic practice…”  (Magnus, Naby 172)  It appears that even the Iranians no longer hold such a world view.  Perception of Islam as a unified power must be reckoned with as a serious threat to the geopolitical status-quo.  The superpower bipolarity of the past has given way to the existence of one superpower, the United States, which sees itself under threat by Muslims.  Hence a future unified Muslim region, such as Central Asia, can potentially come to be regarded as a threat not only in the eyes of some U.S. policy makers but also from the perspective of a Russia embroiled in proxy and direct war with Muslim radicals (Tajikistan).

To be sure, there are a few die-hard Islamic states and the move toward sectarian governance is on the rise, however, in general what has resulted in the fallout of such religious ferocity is a hybrid of the two; that is, a combination of secular and sectarianism.  The Central Asian countries that employ such a combination are Azerbaijan, Uzbekistan, Tajikistan, and Kyrgyzstan—with Afghanistan being the lone Islamic state.

It is unclear to what extent Afghanistan will continue to influence its neighbors.  It has cracked down on its population to such a degree even most Islamic nations muse with incredulity.  The wholesale firing of women from their jobs cuts off Afghanistan’s metaphoric nose to spite its face.  The veil and all it entails is back in vogue and the men are required to don beards under threat of punishment.  Refugees who once had dreams of returning home remain abroad.  Tufa Ahmad’s prognostication of impending disaster from Afghanistan appears to be inevitable.  As to whether it will garner world attention remains to be seen.



                                                    Works Cited

1.)    “Quake Adds to Woes of Afghans.”  The Oakland Tribune  31 May 1998: News 1

2.)    Richard F. Nyrop and Donald M. Seeking, ed.  Afghanistan, a country study.                          Washington DC:  American University, 1986

3.)     Ralph H. Magnus and Eden Naby.  Afghanistan.  Boulder, Colorado:  Westview   Press, 1988

4.)     Malik, Hafeez, ed.  Central Asia.  New York:  St. Martin’s Press, 1994




Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Sugar Ray versus Himself

                                       


By Gregory Taylor


Straight off his ignominious defeat on “Dancing with the Stars”  boxing legend Sugar Ray Leonard has bounced back into the public psyche with a tell-all book about his illustrious life entitled “Sugar Ray Leonard, The Big Fight In and Out of the Ring.”   His pedigree of Olympic hero and world boxing championships belied his struggle with anger, drug addiction, depression, and greed.  A true Horatio Alger story of rags to riches, anonymity to fame, beset by the temptations these profits wrought.  This frank portrayal of a life in an ever-dimming spotlight bespeaks to the disasters of an unanchored-rudderless existence.

My connection to Ray Leonard began, like so many, as an observing fan during his Olympic years.  As his star ascended so did my interest.  His boxing skills represented the second coming of Muhammad Ali--the original people’s champ.  In fact, his boxing theatrics mimicked all that was unique to the greatest Champion of ALL TIME from the Ali Shuffle to the Rope-a-Dope.   When the crescendo of interest demanded a showdown between the two best welter-weights in the world, I, along with a good friend, quickly bought two ringside tickets at the, heretofore, astounding price of $500.00 per seat.  On top of that, we rented and I piloted a private plane to the event in Las Vegas.  This was the fight that every boxing aficionado had to see.

It lived up to everyone’s expectations and is now in the pantheon of boxing immortals, the hall of fame of gate receipts, the annals of epic battles that only Howard Cosell could unabashedly compare to a World War II skirmish.  The after party was just as exciting.  Paul Anka had a club called “Jubilation” and that evening everyone was in a jubilant-partying mood.  There was the, besides myself, all to familiar “Who’s Who of Who’s Who,” at the party from John McEnroe to O.J. Simpson and Nicole.  Sadly, O.J. and Nicole actually were fighting that night in the club and later, according to Faye Resnick’s book, fought that night in their hotel--a definite harbinger of terrible things to come.  Notwithstanding this glitch in the party atmosphere, it was a resounding fun and unforgettable experience.

Sugar Ray went on to have another epic-battle with Marvelous Marvin Hagler (just gotta love the nicknames), that lived up to the expectations that accompany his fights.  As usual, however, with most athletes the limelight is too bright and intoxicating for them to leave the stage.  And when declining skills require them to get off the stage they often haven’t prepared for “Civilian” life.  The deafening lack of screaming crowds, adoring fans, and stellar-pay days hits them like withdrawals hits an alcoholic sneaking a drink while on Antabuse. They’ve never experienced such a powerful blow to the solar plexus.  Recovery can often be protracted and unsuccessful with many relapses in between.

Sugar Ray appears to have won his battle and has found other outlets to channel his interests.  Self-destructive behavior has been channeled into family, business pursuits, and a purpose to get up “happily” in the morning.   Thus, we will see him doing things like “Dancing with the Stars,” and other reality shows related mainly to the fight game to remain relevant; and perhaps, at some point, training other fighters a la Freddie Roach.  One thing for sure, I’d never bet against him to win.  I’ve seen this movie too many times where he always wins. 

Good luck Ray, we are all rooting for you.

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Oakland Parking Division--beware!

 

By Gregory K. Taylor

Today, I finally received the return of my $70.00 bail check, minus the interest that the city collected, for a parking violation in which I was judged not to be at fault.  The citation was issued on the 3rd of November, 2010, and was resolved in the month of February, 2011, but it wasn’t until today the 8th of June, 2011, that I finally had my money returned to me.  

I am utterly disgusted with the city of Oakland’s Parking Division in how they handled this matter.  Their representatives were rude and dismissive with me.  They were unconcerned, once it was determined that they were obligated to return my $70.00, about the promptness in processing the check.  It took them six months to write a check.  How did we get to this place?

Cities, like Oakland, are trying to raise revenues by any means necessary.  A dwindling tax base has led to rigid-traffic enforcement in order to fill the city’s empty coffers.  When a government agency is tasked with raising revenue through traffic enforcement there is a real likelihood that a bit of fudging and corner cutting will occur.  In this case, sitting on monies for the purpose of collecting as much interest for as long as they can is the scheme.

Does anyone remember the days when one received the citation and then made the court date--without paying a fine?  The fine was paid only upon being found guilty. Yes, those were the halcyon days of Constitutional adherence when one was innocent until proven guilty.  Now, with the chase to raise revenue some bureaucrat came up with the notion of collecting the fine first and then requiring the schmuck to prove that he was innocent later--quite a novel scam.

Finally, this unpleasant chapter of my interaction with the infamous Oakland Parking Division has come to an end.  It has left a bitter taste of a corrupt and unfair process.  Warning! Beware of parking in Oakland, because the motivation is to extract money from you by issuing parking tickets.   Your odds of getting out unscathed are…well let’s just say…play the state lottery they’ll give you better odds.


Transforming Families and the Landscape of Elder Caregiving





By Carla Thomas



Imagine caring for your ill parent for over a decade and suddenly having a family member drag you to court, claim power of attorney (POA) and continually undermine you through loopholes in the legal system.   Well that is exactly what happened to Carolyn Brent who for 12 years, served as care giver for her father and in the 12th year, a family member accused her of elder abuse and took her to court in 3 jurisdictions, while falsifying documents and dropping the charges each time.  The accusations cost Brent $14,000 in legal fees and have kept her apart from her dad for over 4 years with modified restraining orders.  “My dad and I were very close and this has been a nightmare.”

The family conflicts came into play once other siblings thought their father was dying, so in pursuit of the inheritance, a suit was filed against Brent falsely accusing her of abuse.
But Brent did not give up, she stood up and not only fought the charges against her, but the saga inspired her to pen her new book due out this fall entitled, “Why Wait? The Baby Boomers Guide to Preparing Emotionally, Financially and Legally For a Parent’s Death.”

“This book was inspired by my caregiving experience for my father.  I want parents and siblings to be able to effectively communicate and make sound decisions about painful end of life issues,” she said.
Brent advises family members to have meetings and establish roles while a parent is healthy to avoid a parent being taken advantage of once they are ill.  Brent has teamed with Ameenah Fuller, who is running for the California State Senate District 31, to keep these issues at the forefront in an article they co-authored in “Looking In Politics” quarterly magazine on the “Scary Side of POA: Fighting for Senior Rights,” in which they encourage families to educate themselves on Power of Attorney issues.

Brent also feels caregivers should be financially fit, and be medically examined as protectors of the elder.  “The legal system has too many loopholes and people can be dragged from one court to another. My father designated me as his medical and fiduciary representative in case of death or illness on the federal level to support his wishes.  Until a family member falsified documents and took over custody, we had no idea we needed state documentation too," Brent continued.

Brent has pushed her complaints to the highest system of justice through Congressman Jerry McNerney (CA-11).   “Congressman McNerney has taken this issue to the Office of the Inspector  General, trying to create a law that will block the loopholes that a family member cannot go through the back door and get a power of attorney at the last minute when they have never  been involved in that person’s life as a caregiver.”
Brent who has worked in the pharmaceutical industry for 17 years says the family member perpetrating the law suits ended up putting her father on welfare to care for him.  “They were ignorant of the costs involved and that I was paying out of pocket to provide my father a high level of care.”  According to Brent, the cost of assisted living begins at $32,000 per year and if 24 hour care is needed families are facing nearly $80,000 a year in expenses.  “Why should families fight over an inheritance when the costs of caring for the sick and elderly are so high?”

According to Brent there are 79 million baby boomers (people born between 1946 and 1964) in the U.S. and 30 million of those baby boomers are now caring for their sick and elderly parents.   “25% of those 30 million baby boomers have their parents living in their homes as they care for them.  Only 55% of Americans have wills and trusts in place and of this percentage Caucasians represent 52%, African Americans represent 32% and Hispanics represent 21%.  So we are in trouble or in for an epidemic if we don’t get things done in writing the proper way in order to prevent the scary side of a POA.”

As Brent seeks to transform the entire landscape surrounding end of life issues she’s created www.caregiverstory.com, a website that provides free medical and legal resources for families and caregivers.  She also created www.babyboomersguide.org to further connect caregivers.  “The Baby Boomer’s Guide is a blog that provides space for conversation among caregivers sharing their experiences and opinion. 
 
In a tribute to her father, Brent created GrandPa’s Dream, inspired by the ministries of Dr. William L. Brent, whose mission was to help the sick and needy through the biblical words of God.   “I hope to educate and empower caregivers and care providers with information to enhance their mental, physical and emotional well being.”

Because Brent feels a caregiver's life stops when they care for someone else, she even created  "Care Givers Appreciation Day" on March 8th in honor of her father's birthday.  "You give your life for the caring of someone else and a part of you dies right along with them.  Caregivers need to be celebrated."

Carla Thomas Blogs At:


http://gregschineseschool.blogspot.com